Eguh Nnamdi's Nugget
Topic: FRIEND/FRIENDSHIP
Word: 1 Kings 11:2 NIV
“You must not intermarry with them, because they will surely turn your hearts.....”
Here's My Take:
What can end friendships:
14. Marriage:
Just like we said yesterday, friendship hardly survive after marriage, unless those involved play their cards cool and mature. But I found out that people that got married on their own never told their friends to stop being their friends anymore, rather it works automatically. Without telling them, their friends, especially unmarried ones, will chose to remove themselves by themselves.
Because they'll think that since s/he is married now, s/he is likely not going to have our time anymore. With the conclusion that his/her focus will be only for their family, not friends. Even some will stop calling the way the used to call.
Just like we were told that what makes friendships remain after marriage is dependent on how the individuals in marriage see/take marriage as. Therefore, friendship after marriage is like a tree that's cut down, which requires a scent of water(attention) to make it come back to life.
Conclusion:
Nothing changed between friends after marriage, is just their mentality that is affected.
Song:
I was just a child, when I felt the Savior leading
I was drawn to what I could not understand
And for the cause of Christ, I have spent my days believing
That what He'd have me be, is who I am
As I've come to see the weaker side of me
I realize His grace is what I'll need
When sin demanded justice for my soul
Mercy said no
I'm not gonna let you go
I'm not gonna let you slip away
You don't have to be afraid
Mercy said no
Sin will never take control
Life and death stood face to face
Darkness tried to steal my heart away
Thank You Jesus, Mercy said no
Prayer:
Father give me strength to manage my friendship.
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