Eguh Nnamdi’s Nugget
Topic: THE DIRECTION - Relationship Direction
Word: Isaiah 30:21 NKJV
Your ears shall hear a word behind you, saying, “This is the way, walk in it,” Whenever you turn to the right hand Or whenever you turn to the left.
Here's My Take:
Relationship Direction: Relationship Direction Teaches Acceptance and Tolerance. There are many men who have been unable to settle down today, not because they lack the resources or have any medical issues, but because they lack acceptance and tolerance. They have the resources, and they have beautiful ladies around them, yet they find it difficult to accommodate anyone.
Some will go as far as having children with several women without marrying any of them. Some time ago, I heard a married man say that if not for the sake of having children, nothing good comes from keeping a woman. Crazy, right?
The problem is often rooted in a lack of acceptance and tolerance. Marriage requires more than attraction and resources. It requires the ability to accept another person's differences, accommodate their weaknesses, communicate through disagreements, and grow together.
Interestingly, he was responsible enough not to follow in the footsteps of others who have children outside wedlock. But responsibility does not end with providing for children; it also includes the ability to build and maintain a healthy relationship with their mother.
Conclusion:
Relationship Direction helps to correct such mindsets and fill the gaps with responsibility, acceptance, tolerance, understanding, and maturity. It teaches us that relationships are not sustained by feelings alone, but by the willingness to understand, accommodate, and grow with one another.
Song:
With fire in His eyes
He′s standing by your door
He's waiting for you
Chorus
I see Him standing by the door
With fire in His eyes
And healing in His wings
To heal someone who believes
So open up your heart
He′s waiting for you
Prayer:
Oh Lord may we be disciplined and responsible in our relationship with people in Jesus’ name, Amen.