Eguh Nnamdi's Nugget
Topic: FRIEND/FRIENDSHIP
Word: John 15:16 NLT
You didn’t choose me. I chose you.
Here's My Take:
What can end friendships:
4. Gossip
Gossip has caused more harm than good. It's very destructive. Sometimes I wonder the joy people derived in doing that. They more it's been evil spoken of, the more it's negative impact is felt. Friends who are really wise and mature should know that such threat is inevitable. As long as we live and flourish, gossip can never stop. Then it takes maturity to be able to handle that.
When you've been someone's friend for years, just like we took time to explain who is a friend, you should have known that person so much that any other thing spoken about the person outside what you knew, is false. Even if is true, as a friend, your duty is to ask the person if what you heard is true. Then it's left for your friend to tell you yes or no. And since s/he is someone you knew, you'll be able to know when s/he is lying or saying the truth.
Know this, when you hearsay about your friend, and wished to approach him/her, never say "I heard from somewhere". This is very bad in friendship. Tell him/her the source of that rubbish. While you join him/her to confront the gossiper, if it's something s/he can't let go.
Conclusion:
Gossip has no strength, it's our ignorance and immaturity to handle it that strengthens it.
Song:
What if I couldn't speak
What if I couldn't eat
What if I couldn't move
Would you still love me?
What if my body ached
And I always made you late
What if I couldn't wait
Would you still love me?
Would you love me when it's hard
And our life's fallen apart
If the things that we once knew are long gone
If our blue skies turn to grey
And my memory fades away
Would you still love me?
Would you still love me?
Prayer:
Father please help me not to let what anyone says deter my judgement towards my friends. Amen.
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